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Daniel Gilbert Happiness

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Happiness. It is not tangible, measurable or even understandable. Yet, above all other things, it is what people seek the most. Individuals draw happiness from a number of different sources,presumably causing the confusion as to why happiness can not be traced back to a specific object. Still, how can you possibly meet the expectations of being happy? This article will attempt to demystify the subject of happiness. The best way to achieve happiness would be by using the 3 aspects of philosophy created by Sam Berns. These three aspects to the philosophy are as follows,1)accepting flaws in oneself,2) Surrounding yourself with people whom you want to be around and lastly,3)Keep moving forward. As simple as it may seem to be contempt with yourself;it’s not. Loving yourself or being fully competent with the flaws you own can either make you or break you, it’s a constant work in progress. If you surround yourself with people who ultimately care about your well being and who support …show more content…

Meaning, we simply overestimate the happiness we can receive/achieve from future events. Over time, Daniel Gilbert a professor at Harvard, has made it a goal of his to study what he refers to as the ”impact bias”. Gilbert shares with Jon Gertner in “The Futile Pursuit of Happiness”, exactly how the “impact bias” can affect current or future decisions,somewhat for the worse. “When we find pleasure derived from a thing diminishing, we move on to the next thing event and almost certainly make an error of prediction,and then another,ad infinitum…”. It’s in the nature of humans to begin to lose interest and jump to the next “big thing”, But is it beneficial? You’re overestimating how much difference that they will make. This is just considered “miswanting”. So, ask yourself the next time you take a risk,” Is it really worth

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