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Early Childhood Friendships: Article Analysis

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I was recently reading an article called The Importance of Friendships for School Aged Children by Ferrer & Fugate (2002), and in the article the authors argued that “Friends are vital to school-age children's healthy development…Friendships provide children with more than just fun playmates. Friendships help children develop emotionally and morally. In interacting with friends, children learn many social skills, such as how to communicate, cooperate, and solve problems” (pg.1). It is not until recently that I can see the importance and significance behind their words. Childhood friendships are a vital component to the social and emotional development of children. This period of time is also when a child is potentially introduced to a new …show more content…

Trawick-Smith in the text Early Childhood Development: A Multicultural Perspective (2014) defines social competence as “two interrelated aspects of human developments: being liked by others and having skills to interact effectively in social settings” (pg. 89). It has been proven that children who are lacking social abilities, do not get along well with their peers, and who are aggressive in their early years, are more likely to become troubled psychologically in later childhood, adolescence, and adulthood (Trawick-Smith, 2014). Some good predictors of well-developed social competence are positive relationships with peers, and strong social skills. So it is easy to see that well developed social competence is key for an individual’s happiness and mental health throughout their …show more content…

In middle school I transferred to Pojoaque Middle School, which has a dominant Native American school population. I had many interactions with peers that differed from me culturally. One interaction that I call to my mind was back in 5th grade when I meet Marcus Lopez. The first time I meet Marcus was on the first day of 5th grade back in 2005. I immediately noticed that we differed greatly physically, he is Native American and he had Native American features, and I am Hispanic and have Hispanic features. I soon noticed that even though we differed physically, out of the rest of my peers, I related with and was most similar to Marcus. This was definitely a positive interaction with a peer that differed from me culturally. I can proudly say that Marcus is currently one of my closest friends and he has also been my roommate for the past 3 years of my college experience here at New Mexico State University. Out of that first interaction with Marcus back in 5th grade, I gained one of my greatest friends and I’m sure our friendship will last a lifetime.
Exploring friendships during childhood from a deeper perspective has been a very rewarding and inspiring experience. I learned more than I could have ever imagined. Looking back on my childhood friendships and the many cultures I was introduced to by my peers, I realized

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