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Friendship And True Friendship

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Have you ever had the feeling like someone knows you better than yourself? Frequently surrounded by so-called friends or acquaintances, as I like to call them, where a connection between people is little to nonexistent. Whereas having a true friend is someone who's there for you no matter what, for the marvelous and the dreadful. It’s theses kind of true friends that will have one’s back, they are loyal, trustworthy, and a valuable person to have in anyone’s life. To better understand what the word friend, it’s important to know the history. To begin with, it derives from Middle English the word friend means love, attachment, and feeling that of a relative. First notably used in the twelfth century. Therefore a friend is someone who listens to what one is saying and cares about them their feelings and opinion. On the other hand, at times it feels like my friendships are a bit one-sided, where I do the majority of listening. As a result of this, I’ve discovered a notable difference between a friend and a true friend, in a friendship; there are talkers and listeners. Except in a true friendship, where neither claim a specific role, both are talkers and the listeners. Thus it's fair to say a true friend is someone who can laugh at me, and make fun of my awkward moments with me, and vice versa. In other words, it’s these types of friends are the best because, we work as a team, both sides adding to the relationship. However, it's more than using someone as a gossip pal or to

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