It was in April 2011, I was working only 20-30 hours a week, due to shortage of work. It was a struggle for my family; my wife, which was pregnant with our second child, and my daughter, at the time was only 2. I was doing odd jobs whenever I wasn’t able to work my normal job. This still seemed to not be enough for my family and me to really live on. Work continued to slow down, and our bills seemed to speed up. As usual, I was determined one way or another, to turn my position around and provide for my family. As odd jobs, I was mowing several yards, one of which belonged to George, a man I had went to high school with. After finishing up his yard we stood around and were talking. He told me that since he was a Driller for Highlands Drilling, …show more content…
On Monday, I applied for a Floor Hand position at the Highlands Drilling office. After finishing all the necessary paper work, the secretary came in and said that I had been requested on Highlands Rig 8 near Uniontown, Pennsylvania. I told her that it sounded great and asked, “When do I start?” The answer I got was not what I expected to hear. I was told that since it was so late in the evening, I didn’t need to go up there until the next day. This would be awesome news for most jobs, but for a job that was 500 miles from home, without any prior planning, not so …show more content…
It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do in my life, no one can explain to a 2 year old “Daddy’s Girl,” that this was only going to be for a couple weeks at a time. I honestly thought during this goodbye period, of just staying home and forgetting the opportunity. In reality, I knew this wasn’t an option as soon as I thought about the bills that we were in debt to. I unhappily gave a goodbye hug and kiss to my wife and daughter, got in the truck, and drove away, my house disappearing slowly in the rearview
The whole family was in tears, but we also knew we needed to continue on our way down south. Mother was most upset, she just wanted to hold him one last time but I was afraid to let her. Thinking it would make things worse, I refused to let her hold him.Then we held a makeshift funeral we laid him in the hole we had dug last night. From there we all spoke out and said what he meant to us and how we will miss him. Father then began filling in the whole. As he did so, we all had one big group hug. It will take all of us time to move forward but we will get there.
my job, and was facing eviction. I was twenty-six at that time, my son was seven, and my daughter was
The impact of saying good-bye and actually leaving did not hit me until the day of my departure. Its strength woke me an hour before my alarm clock would, as for the last time Missy, my golden retriever, greeted me with a big, sloppy lick. I hated it when she did that, but that day I welcomed her with open arms. I petted her with long, slow strokes, and her sad eyes gazed into mine. Her coat felt more silky than usual. Of course, I did not notice any of these qualities until that day, which made me all the more sad about leaving her.
Soon I had to break the news to my other family and friends. It was extremely hard for me to leave everyone. The hardest part of leaving was not being able to see my longtime friends. Everyone cried, the family, friends, neighbors. It felt as if we lost a piece of our heart. It was so sad but I knew that the best choice
"Good bye honey! Take care! Call us when you get there safely!" my mother cried. I can still hear those words as if it were yesterday and in reality it was fourteen years ago, that I packed up and left my small town back in southern New Jersey.
I started substitute teaching at various elementary, middle and high schools in the Jacksonville area. In October of 2010, I obtained full time employment at Youth Crisis Center as a Youth Care Specialist. My role was to assist young adults in the foster care system. While at Youth Crisis Center, I was acknowledged for my dedication and excellence in the work place and was promoted to team lead. In March 2011, I was laid off and regained employment at the Mental Health Resource Center, as a Family Services Counselor (FSC). As I held this position, I worked with families through the foster care system who had experienced past trauma of abuse, abandonment or neglect. I held a case load of 15-25 families as I coordinated services to ensure each of their need were met. The types of services provided included medical, dental, educational, therapeutic, parenting, mental health and substance abuse to name a few. Likewise, I prepared reports on a weekly basis to be submitted to the courts regarding the families progress or lack thereof. With all intent to reunify families there were instances that reunification was not deemed to be in the child(s) best interest. In such cases as these it was also my responsibility to testify in open court advocating for other permanency options for the child. I found my position as a FSC to be both challenging and rewarding at the same time. I remember working with a family whose
My mom did everything in her power to make ends meet. After my brother graduated, my mother moved 500 miles away to Connecticut. I grew up in West Virginia, this resulted in me not wanting to move. I moved in with my father my freshman year. My father was constantly distracted from drugs and alcohol. At this time, I was half way through high school. I realized that I could not live with him anylonger. I spent about a year living with friends. My grandmother, who I was not particularly close with, so graciously allowed me to live with. In order to do this, I was requirered to learn how to support myself financially. Today, I assist my grandmother in paying utilities as well as paying for all neccessitites for myself. My grandmother never had a license or a vehicle. I provide her with transportation too. She does not support me financially, but she does provide me with a roof over my head. In June, I will be moving out on my own. I will continue to live each day with optimism. I will continue to endavor through the difficult times, and will stop at nothing to reach
My mother and I began to pack the following week after my step-father broke the news. I call all my close friends to tell them the devastating news. We planned to hang out the last week of my stay. Every day, our apartment would get emptier and emptier by the minute. I was still in disbelief that we were moving. You never know how much stuff you have until you move. My
As we were packing the last of our things into a U-Haul truck and saying goodbye to our friends, I suddenly got sad because I would be leaving what I knew. So as I took the last breath
When we finished packing we celebrated a special dinner for them before they left. I thought when they left I wouldn’t be able to see them for a while .I also had a decision to go to Texas with them later on or stay in Kansas.It was very hard to go or to stay with everyone.
I pushed my bangs back from my face as I tapped lightly on the back door of my new job, Egg & I. I had been a server before at Cracker Barrel, which was twice the size of this new job and open much later as well, so I wasn’t worried about my last day of training before I was put on the floor by myself. One of the cooks opened the door for me and I muttered a shy ‘thank you’ before walking toward the computer to sign in. I slowed down as my eyes landed on the herd of servers huddled around my boyfriend of five years, DJ. He had gotten a job at Egg & I two weeks before me and, after telling me at length how much better this job would be than Cracker Barrel, I applied and immediately got the job.
In 1986, I dropped out of college to relocate to Florida where I worked a couple years, got married and had 2 boys. I formed Oceanview Landscape & Irrigation where I was the owner/operator and designer of Landscape Installations. This business served its purposed by allowing me to work around the family and contribute to our finances. I sold that business and unfortunately my marriage came to an end. I re-entered the corporate world for a previous supervisor and had the opportunity of a lifetime by working with some amazing professionals on the design for the restoration of the Everglades. Unfortunately political cutbacks affected my employment. I returned back to school for
The hardest part for me was having to say goodbye to all my friends I knew since I was little, they would stop by the
Learning that everyone’s time is precious and we should live every moment alongside the people we love the most, because we’ll never be too sure when they’re going to leave us. Till this day it still doesn’t feel real, I keep telling myself that one day she’ll be back and everything will be ok. She was the heart and soul of our family where we all would gather at Thanksgiving time or just on a regular day. Her home was always full of joy and excitement but now it’s full of loneliness and darkness. She is gone now, to a new home, a home called
I took a break from work to stay at home with her and nurse her back to recovery. Focusing on my other interests, I enrolled in a short term visual arts course at Xavier Institute of Communications. Though my final grade was lowered due to attendance, my perseverance enabled me to receive the university award for the best social documentary of the year. The decision to turn a seemingly adverse situation to a rewarding one taught me that difficult times are often instruments for accomplishments and formulation of future goals and helped me discover my passion for the entertainment business.