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Intergenerational Abuse In Residential Schools

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Residential schools first opened in the late 1880’s with the last one closing in the later 1990’s. The Canadian government was responsible for the initiation of residential schools while it was the churches (Anglican, Presbyterian, United, and Roman Catholic) responsibility to educate and oversee the overall running of the schools. Hanson (2009) writes “The purpose of residential schools was to eliminate all aspects of the Aboriginal culture.” It is through looking at the history of residential schools and facing the assimilation forced upon Aboriginal children and their families, along with the abuses endured that a reconciliation between all involved with the uprising and running of these schools that all can come together in moving forward …show more content…

Hanson (2009) states, by growing up in a residential school many students feel they don’t belong to either the Aboriginal or the European culture, feeling discrimination from both sides. Although not all survivors of residential schools came out of it with negative effects, many felt a complete loss of who they were and were left with feelings of self-hatred and hatred towards their lost culture. Having known nothing but abusive behaviors instilled upon them many formal residential students repeated this cycle of intergenerational abuse within their own relationships (Charles & DeGagne, 2013). Upon leaving residential schools many students left with extreme low self-esteem and a lack of direction, knowing nowhere else to turn many walk into the cycle of alcoholism and addictions and even suicide. Mlaxha writes of his struggle with alcohol, citing, although coaching his sons’ sports teams helped him to both connect with them and was a way for him to forget the abuses he endured in the residential school system, he saw coaching as an excuse to “drink with the men”. He would drink with his son Art which eventually would bring anger out in him as he saw more of himself in his son. His relationship with his other son Peter was broken as Peter did not approve his drinking. Mlaxha admits that there were years when he would contemplate suicide but never acted on those thoughts. As his alcoholism worsened his health and body suffered. Although he never hit his wife, Mlaxha admits that when he drank he would become aggressive. His moods when drinking could turn on a switch from calmness to outrage. He would think about telling his wife about the abuses he had endured but was afraid to, he was afraid of rejection. His alcoholism threatened their marriage. Eventually he went to treatment and was able

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