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Nancy Mairs On Being A Cripple Summary

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Having the disease multiple sclerosis can affect one's life tremendously. In the essay, "On Being A Cripple", the author Nancy Mairs suffers from the disease and has a love-hate relationship with it. Socially, it appears that although Mairs has the disease, she accepts it and does normal things like going on vacations with her family. However, personally, it's hard for her at times and she gets into a depressed state and wishes she didn't have the disease when she has a falling or an incident.
Multiple Sclerosis, also referred to as “MS”, is a disease that can affect one's brain, spinal cord, and eyes. This disease can cause problems with one's vision, muscle control, balance, and other essential body functions. Up until the age twenty-eight, …show more content…

For instance, when she went on a vacation trip to California.On the way to California her legs began to act funny however, she continued to go and “it was a fine two-week trip.” Afters however, reality began to hit her and it killed her confidence and acceptance of everything. “It renewed my grief and fury and terror, and I learned that one never finishes adjusting to MS”(58). After Mairs has an inciden she always seeps back into depression and she learns that she never will really accept having MS. It also gets hard for Mairs and she gets angry when she feels like society makes people with disabilities seem that they aren’t normal. In the essay Mairs mentions how in today's’ society the ideal woman is a beautiful physically attractive woman with no disabilities. “She is trim and deeply tanned; she jogs, swims, plays tennis, rides a bicycle, sails, but does not bowl . . “(57). Mairs says this to say that in today's society you’ll never see a crippled person in a magazine because it isn’t attractive or amusing to others and when society sees people with disabilities; they automatically think that they should feel sorry for them. That's what Mairs hates; sympathy, She hates to feel like if she’s unequal or ineligible to do certain things when in reality, she does the same an ordinary person would do, if not more. “I lead, on the whole, ordinary life, probably rather like the one I would have led had I not had MS”(55). Nothing changed about Mairs since she was diagnosed but her physical appearance. Yes, here and there she faces depression; however, she was a graduate student, a wife, and a mother when she was diagnosed; and now, she is still a graduate student, a wife, and a mother. In fact she does more than the ordinary, not only does she complete her studies, she teaches writing courses, medical students on how to give

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