I would not call the spouse mentally disturbed, as there could be many reasons for her not to leave. I know one such a person who was raised to believe one stays with your husband for better or for worse, even if the “worse” is unbearable. She believes it is her duty. Many people stay in a marriage to protect the children, as divorcing would mean that they have to spend much more time alone with a narcissistic parent than while the parents are together. About loving deeply - a narcissist would have chosen someone who believes the best of others, who honestly loves people and only want what’s best for others. This “gullibility” is something a narcissist will zoom in on, and if ever the spouse calls the narcissist out on something, he will make her feel sorry for him, let her believe that he is depressed, or still cannot get over the death of a parent, or remind her how badly he was treated as a child. This love is similar to motherly love, where person wants to save and protect those who need it. …show more content…
But she cannot go through with it, because she is more afraid of being alone and broke. She was raised by an abusive father, and as a child they had lost everything they owned several times. These scars run very deeply, and her yearning for love makes her give love (in the constant hope of getting some back), but it still does not mean that she is mentally disturbed. To call a narcissist mentally disturbed is also a bit extreme. Some narcissists (and malignant narcissists) do at times appear to be mentally disturbed, but there is a problem with the phrasing. They have a personality
According to the article Modernity and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (2014) by Joel Paris, narcissistic personality disorder is a pathological amplification of narcissistic traits. This means that unlike a normal person, the traits in a narcissistic person that defines their personality are usually increased from a 1 to a 10. They are always the “self-absorbed” guy in the crowd.
Fantasies- Narcissists harbour fantasies for what their life could be like. They create their own fantasy worlds where they are the main “character.” Some narcissists are caught up in this delusion while others strive to achieve their ideal life. (A tendency to create fictional worlds is also characteristic of schizoid personality disorder.)
Narcissism is defined as the love of ones self. Sigmund Freud was the first to use the word to characterize certain character traits. He got the word from the Greek mythological legend Narcissus who saw his reflection in water and fell in love with himself. Freud suggests that all of us have a bit of self love, but when self love goes extreme it can be a problem and is considered a pathological problem. Nora from “The Doll House,” only exuded narcissistic behavior because she was treated like a doll. She was spoiled and only thought that that was how she was supposed to behave in order to get what she wanted or to please the men in her
Narcissism personality disorder according to DSM-V is (and now also in Section II of DSM-5) describe “a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy . . .,” indicated by five or more of the following: (a) a grandiose sense of self-importance; (b) preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love; (c) beliefs of being special and unique; (d) requirements of excessive admiration; (e) a sense of entitlement; (f) interpersonal exploitativeness; (g) lack of empathy; (h) envy of others; and (i) arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. Narcissism has been around or studied for thirty years. Rosenfeld thought that that his client had invented an alter ego at first. In the article what part do narcissism play in the narcissistic disorder? It talk about narcissistic disorder arise when an ego-destructive super ego has arisen in the course of development. The article talks about that trauma as a child or infant may also play a big part of narcissism. A large part of narcissistic disorder comes from a wide range of symptoms like self-enhancing and self-serving incentives. (Elsa Ronningstam) described a 21 none year old client that she treated, his parents brought him in to see her and they described him as selfish, inconsiderate, demanding, and demeaning, with threatening and verbally aggressive behavior, and involved in poly substance abuse (pp 434-438). Bob his self-admitted that some
Most people would probably think of a narcissistic sociopath as having a high self-esteem, but the majority of the time, it is the exact opposite. They have a deep sense of insecurity of underneath their grand exterior. They want/need others to be envious of them, but usually they are the jealous one. They are competitive and threatened by others achievements. Their relationships are often stormy and short-lived. They leave a trail of hurt feelings in their wake. They are easily hurt, but normally choose not to show it. They can't stand criticism, make excuses, and refuse to take responsibility for their own flaws and failures. They believe they are natural leaders who can easily sway others. They never listen. It’s a one way street. All take, no give.
Her recent episode of fleetingly thinking of throwing herself in front of a car is also an increase in previously somewhat benign self-harm behavior in the past. She has a history of sexual abuse as a child which may be of significance to her current mood status at this time in her life.
She was infatuated with the idea of what she wanted him to be and failed to recognize his true destructive
To those who have a narcissistic personality disorder, they may come across as arrogant, egotistical or snobbish. They often dominate conversations. They may belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior. They may feel a sense of entitlement and when they do not receive special treatment, they may become impatient or angry. They may insist on having "the best" of everything for example, the best car, athletic club or medical care. At the same time, they have trouble handling anything that relates to criticism. They may have secret feelings of anxiety, disgrace, and embarrassment. To feel better, they may react with rage or contempt and try to degrade the other person to make themselves appear superior. On the other hand, they may feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection. For example, symptoms to look out for in someone you know or in yourself would be, someone having an amplified sense of self-importance or blowing your achievements and talents out of proportion. Being absent-minded with dreams about accomplishments, power, intelligence,
mentally ill after she experienced the traumatic events that she witnessed. I believe that it varies
This paper is an attempt to shed some light on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Many people who have this disorder are not usually aware that they have it. People who have a narcissistic personality can have many problems arise in their relationships, on their jobs, and at school. Narcissistic personality disorder is a rare case here in the US, with less than 200,000 reported cases a year. It might be because it isn’t reported enough and most the people who do have it are not going to just come out and say that they do. A person who is a narcissist usually exhibits a fixation with power, vanity, prestige, and personal importance. They are mentally unable to see the damage they are causing to themselves and the people around them. More awareness should be spread about this disorder so that it will become more identifiable in people and better treatment can be discovered. Spreading awareness will also help those who have NPD with getting help for it.
wants to hate her but he cannot help loving her. Even though he knows his love for her will
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), also known as Narcissism and often mistakenly shortened to Narcism, is a mental disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance and egoism (MayoClinic). The word Narcissism comes from a mythical Greek being named Narcissus (Etym). Narcissus had stunning features, and when he saw his beauty reflected in a body of water, he fell in love with his own reflection. He became so obsessed that he did not leave for food or water and soon died. When his body vanished, a flower took his place which, from that moment on, would carry his name (Echo). In 1898, a psychologist by name of Havelock Ellis made the first known comparison between Narcissus and a patient and Paul Nacke, a German psychiatrist,
Her suicidal behavior, which was often triggered by her cognitive thoughts such as, “No one is ever going to love me,” “Everyone always leave me,” resulted in her distressing emotions.
It is also possible that his mental illness stems from genetics. The film suggests that she suffers from depression by showing evidence of self harm.
as well as behavioral, compartmentalizing him into lips, and verbal tics and prejudices and likes…in short she fell under the spell of the perforated sheet of her own parents, because she resolved to fall in love with her husband bit by bit.”