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What Is The Responsibility Of Being A Narcissist

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I would not call the spouse mentally disturbed, as there could be many reasons for her not to leave. I know one such a person who was raised to believe one stays with your husband for better or for worse, even if the “worse” is unbearable. She believes it is her duty. Many people stay in a marriage to protect the children, as divorcing would mean that they have to spend much more time alone with a narcissistic parent than while the parents are together. About loving deeply - a narcissist would have chosen someone who believes the best of others, who honestly loves people and only want what’s best for others. This “gullibility” is something a narcissist will zoom in on, and if ever the spouse calls the narcissist out on something, he will make her feel sorry for him, let her believe that he is depressed, or still cannot get over the death of a parent, or remind her how badly he was treated as a child. This love is similar to motherly love, where person wants to save and protect those who need it. …show more content…

But she cannot go through with it, because she is more afraid of being alone and broke. She was raised by an abusive father, and as a child they had lost everything they owned several times. These scars run very deeply, and her yearning for love makes her give love (in the constant hope of getting some back), but it still does not mean that she is mentally disturbed. To call a narcissist mentally disturbed is also a bit extreme. Some narcissists (and malignant narcissists) do at times appear to be mentally disturbed, but there is a problem with the phrasing. They have a personality

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