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Narcissism Definition

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A notable feature of narcissism is the selfie; the proliferation of selfies are an obvious illustration of narcissism. According to John Paul Titlow’s “#me: Instagram Narcissism and the Scourge of the Selfie,” there are more than 90 million self-portraits taken under #me, which is the third most frequently used hashtag on Instagram. There are images of varying quality, displaying faces of different people from different places. We are able to scroll through our feed and be able to access and view into the world of others. However, many people use selfies to seek approval from their friends, followers, and the larger community. For example, many young, teenage girls would post selfies up, showing some cleavage or arching their back so much to …show more content…

Narcissists are not interested or fail in forming deep, long lasting relationships, but rather seek any relationship that may serve to enhance their status. On the other hand, as the relationship develops, narcissists start to display negative behaviors, such as arrogance and aggression. More followers, friends or strangers, mean more likes and a higher status, therefore those followers become the building blocks of social media success, and mainly a source of self-esteem. Social media promotes an likening to narcissists because they are indeed popular at first acquaintance, due to their charisma, attractiveness, and humor. They are addicted and thrive on the positive social feedback and emotional rush that they receive. However, their addiction on social feedback and emotional rush, narcissists often don't see how their behaviors are making it nearly impossible to gain the deep, social, and emotional well-being benefits of being in an intimate relationship. Narcissists crave a lot of impressive acquaintances, social media users desire tons of followers to inflate their online …show more content…

Social media provides a stream of everyone’s happiest moments. As glossy pictures of friends’ awesome lives flood your screen, it is extremely easy to become jealous. And generally, when you’re cruising through your news feed, you are by yourself, in your home, doing nothing. It’s normal to feel this anticipatory regret from time to time. We may decide we need to stay home and rest on a Saturday night, but we’re a bit uneasy to miss the party with our friends. It becomes an automatic comparison, in which a friend’s happiness becomes an affront to your self-esteem. According to Kristi Hedges’ “Do You Have FOMO: Fear of Missing Out?” article, there are a few signs that one might be suffering from excessive FOMO, and may have a negative impact in their lives. First sign of excessive FOMO is constantly checking social media and email. Many people check their email and social media because people like to stay in the know, and be on top of everything. If we are disconnected from social media for a certain amount of time, we bear an antsy feeling to know what happened during the time we were not checking social media. Another sign is continuously question work-life choices. Work-life balance is something many struggle with and it’s normal to wonder from time to time if you're missing out on life, but social media provides an effortless way to make you feel more unsettled about your life. We are at work worrying about what our friends are

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