Leadership and Personal Motivation During my sophomore year, Debate was one of my extracurricular activities that always taught me a lesson. The debate team has taught me to be more social with other people because in our tournaments we would have to go against other students from different schools about a topic. But I will never forget my first tournament of that year where it marked a turning point in my life. After debating at my first tournament, I had received a call from my father about how he got arrested by the police. He had told me that he was driving under the influence of alcohol. During his explanation, my mind started to panic because this wasn't his first time receiving a DUI from the police. Therefore, I knew that my father was in big trouble because he is an immigrant from El Salvador, and he has received so many DUI's in the past that the court would consider him for deportation. When my mother heard this heartbreaking news about my father, she didn't know what to do because she wasn't working and she had to stay home to take care of my youngest sister because my mother knew that we lived in a terrible neighborhood where there are various gangs and gun shootings. My mother and I could not take that chance, so I realized that I had to take the obligations of my father bills because he was behind, and there was no way to catch up if there wasn't someone working. Especially after hearing that he was going to be sent away to prison for one year, announced
I can still remember getting back from school one day and asking my mom “where’s dad?” Finding out that my dad was in prison was really hard for me especially because I was at the age of 9 where I didn’t fully understand what was going on. I remember my mom telling me that “everything will be ok as long as we pray we will get through this together”. I was unaware of the physical and mental struggles that I was gonna have to endure with him being gone. Life got really hard for me, it felt like my world had just been crushed.
One weekend, we had decided to clean out the house to surprise my mother. My father found papers stashed away that revealed theft charges; my mother had stolen medication when she substituted for the nurse in my elementary school. I remember my dad scouring the house for more evidence, even finding a stash of pill bottles under their mattress. She had another court date coming up that he learned about, just a few weeks before a family trip to Disney. Shortly after that hearing, my family took our last vacation as a whole, knowing that a key member would be lost to us the Monday after our return; she was going into work-release for two months. Before the end of those sixty days, my father learned that my mother had been unfaithful. Their marriage ended, and at eleven and nine, my sister and I said what we didn't realize would be goodbye to our mother for a great while. Her drug abuse continued, and months of time would pass between visits. We saw that sweet, ideal mother devolve into an addict. This loss has shaped me greatly, and it has taught me integrity, strength of character, and great love for others; without these things, my mother cost herself her family and
As you may have heard, Mr. Swift has made a very modest proposal about what to do with the situation of starvation among adults. Mr. Swift has proposed that after a year of a child's birth, they be eaten if the family wishes. I, being a mother of a baby, currently, could not approve of this proposal more. Me and my husband together, concur, this will allow us to not go hungry, but also fulfill our wish to have another baby. We've always wanted more kids, but we only desire a baby. We don't want them after they have grown older. We already have an older son. Now, with this proposal, we won't go hungry and we can stay full for months on end and all I must do is push out a baby. No big deal.
Human motivation is a physiological drive that we all have inside ourselves. There is no way to completely avoid it. Some drives we have are for basic necessities of survival, like the feelings of thirst and hunger. Obviously we must give into the drive that our body is signaling to us we must have because food and water are essential for us to live. When our behavior is directed by means of survival this is something known as homeostasis. “According to drive theory, the body maintains a condition of homeostasis, in which any particular system is in balance or equilibrium (C.L. Hull, 1951). Any departure from homeostasis, such as depletion of nutrients or a drop in temperature, produces an aroused condition, or drive, which impels the individual to engage in appropriate action such as eating, drinking, or seeking warmth. As the body’s need is met, the drive and associated arousal subside.” (Garrett, pg. 161)
The MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) has given me insightful information over 4 different dichotomies: 1)Where I focus my attention 2) How I take in information 3) How I make decisions based on the information and 4) How I deal with the world. After completing the assessment, I was dubbed ‘INTJ’. This being 9% Introvert, 38% iNtuitive, 3% Thinking, and 31% Judging. To my surprise, after reading the detailed report, I found most of the information presented, to be ‘spot on’. According to the Center for Confidence and Well-Being, “Of all the personality types, INTJs are most motivated by “vision”. They have a great need to come up with a unifying idea of a future, improved state, which is then their job to realize. This inner vision can be so strong for INTJs and so individual that they are often reckoned to be the most independent-minded of all the types” (Craig, C., 2014). This provided me with great validation that I have been lucky enough to find myself in the right career. Currently, I am the interim Director of Quality at an acute care hospital in San Diego. Daily, myself and my team are looking for ways to improve hospital processes, systems, and relationships. Always striving for a future vision or ‘ideal state’ of how we would like to see our organization functioning to better serve our community. Many people have told me that they could ‘not do what I do’ simply because of the data collecting, analyzing, reporting, and
My mother was a mom who did what she could do for her children she worked as a cleaning lady at many homes to keep us in school and also to keep food on the table. My father however; was a self contractor and also a good worker at what he did but he was an alcoholic . He didn't help my mother at all even if she could find him. Nine times out of ten it was to late for us to get anything from him , thank the lord that the people where my mom work helped her out in so many ways. It would be weeks and sometime months before we seen my father again . It was very hard for my mother but still she kept going to work , there were nine of us at home that needed to be cared for . The older ones as myself went to work to help our mom with our sisters and brothers. The smaller ones I kept them when I was not at work with my
I began to help my mom around the house. I had to learn how to cook a proper meal when I was seven years old, do laundry among other things to give my mom some relief. One day, when I was nine years old, my grandmother shared the news of my father’s departure to the U.S and that he did so to give me a better chance. It was heavy news for me, and as an emotional child I cried with my grandma and felt sad that from now on I was not going to get the occasional visit from him. As a teenager in the process of growing into a man, you think you need a father figure, a man perspective, advice on things that life throw at you, it was clear that I didn’t have that anymore. I was fortunate to have my mother and my grandmother to teach me right and wrong; the rest was pretty much up to me.
Another time I was extrinsically motived was when I would have to lift weight for cross country and track. I hated lifting weights and only did it because my coach said we had to lift to be on the team. While most of the time motivations can fall under one of the two types, it can also change over time. From my example of lifting, for me it started out that I was extrinsically motivated to lift but as time went on, I now lift because I like it and how healthy it makes me feel when I am done. Over time my feelings towards lifting changed so the type of motivation I had for this action also changed.
I joined the debate team in my freshman year on a whim. New to the school, I followed the one friend I had made into the interest meeting, but wasn’t seriously considering pursuing the activity. My first tournament was enough to change that view- the bright words that tumbled
Motivation is the “why” behind our behaviors. Behavior that is usually goal-oriented. The forces that lie beneath motivation can be biological, social, emotional or cognitive in nature. There are, indeed, a plethora of inducements that cause us to act the way we act and do the things we do. They include things like quenching our thirst, reading to gain knowledge, studying to ace an exam, surpassing quotas and meeting deadlines for a promotion, etc. According to Kendra Cherry’s article on “WHAT IS MOTIVATION”, there are three components of motivation: activation, persistence and intensity. Activation is the decision to initiate a behavior. Persistence is the continued effort toward a goal even though obstacles may exist. Intensity is the
In recent years, job satisfaction is a prevalent issue around the world. There are diverse methods to be successful in career, such as intrinsic and external motivation. Definition and conceptualisation of internal motivation is achieving the goals and aims personally and within favourable, and self-confirmation. However, it is within anticipation that some of the employees are indulged in external motivation of money and emphasises rewards. It can be argued that monetary rewards may lead to motivated and capable degradation. Therefore, it need to manage internal motivation to create job satisfaction. This essay will argue that internal motivation management could obtain satisfaction from a career. First, it may need to realise the job purpose and personal ideology in order to create the first satisfaction. Next, this is necessary to understand the workplace and the environment of a company owing to participate in society. Finally, to develop the last step of satisfaction is introspection and improve the weakness.
Motivation is very important part of a person’s development. For me motivation was a person who played cricket with me. He was my friend subordinate and my guide. He was elder to me so I was like a younger brother for him. I had plenty of ups and downs in my cricket career but he always stood besides me. He used to share everything with him. He never let me quit the game because he knew what the game meant to me, my father and my grandfather. I almost quit the game 5 times in my career for not performing well, but he always said it was just a bad day, bad time and always motivated for good times and by making me remember my good times my good innings. He said bad time will go away and good time will come and
‘Motivation’ is derived from the Latin term ‘movere’ that means ‘to move’. Thus, motivation is a process that starts with a physiological or psychological deficiency or need that activates a behaviour or a drive that is aimed at a goal or incentive (Luthans). Broadly speaking, motivation is willingness to exert high levels of efforts towards organizational goals, conditioned by the efforts’ ability to satisfy some individual needs (Robbins). Need means some internal state that make certain outcomes appear attractive. An unsatisfied need creates tension that stimulates drives within the individual. These drives generate a search behaviour to find particular goals, that if attained,
Individual motivation has been defined as the processes that account for individual’s intensity, direction, and persistence of effort toward attaining a goal. Group motivation is built on the same principles but consists of two or more individuals, interacting and interdependent, who come together to achieve goals. In formal groups the behavior team members usually engage in are determined and guided toward organizational goals. Informal groups in organizations meet the need for social contact and these types of interactions among individuals, through informal, can deeply affect behavior and performance. Groups can be either formal or informal; both can affect employees’ behavior and performance. There has always been a debate about
Motivation is one of the most discussed topics in the present era’s organisations, especially since renowned psychologists like Maslow and Herzberg are dedicating their efforts to understanding it. Companies are investing a significant amount of resources in improving productivity in order to maximise profits. One of these important resources is of human nature. In order to get the very best out of employees, some motivational approaches need to be used. But what is motivation and how do I successfully motivate? I will try to relate one of my personal experiences with a friend to some of the most influential motivational theories. After introducing my story and making a definition of motivation I will address the ideas of Taylor,