The Narcissist In You Life By Dr. Doctor Linda Martinez

The personality of a person is what ultimately defines who they are. This is what 99% of us look for in a person actually knowing who they really are. A person may be fun, loving, caring, and charismatic and a million other traits, but there is none like being narcissistic. A narcissistic person is one who truly believes that the world revolves around them and them only. This is someone who has an excessive or erotic interest in themselves, he/she craves constant admiration and never want to recognize differences with external objects. This type of obsessive behavior is characterized as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). This is definitely something that can have an adverse effect on children and their mental health. Parents suffering from narcissistic personality disorder are not very capable of raising and providing a quality, solid foundation for their children while maintaining and ensuring the preservation of their child’s mentality.

What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a mental disorder where someone has an exaggerated sense of their own presence, a need for constant admiration from others and they also have a lack of empathy for anyone (Mayo Clinic). A couple questions I have include: How does social media effect society? How does social media have an effect on someone diagnosed with NPD, What are ways you can help someone with NPD, and what are some ways we can conclude that someone may have NPD on social networking sites? Social media is what’s hot right now and someone diagnosed with NPD will only get wrapped up in its web and will be negatively impacted by it. The main focus of my research to further my knowledge includes: The risk factors social media have on someone diagnosed with NPD, signs on social media of someone who may have NPD, and so on.

Narcissists ruin the bonds that kept the relationships together creating negative impacts on their social, family, and work life (Cherry 1). Narcissists create unrealistic goals and images of themselves, clouding their thought process and reasoning (Nakate 1). The behavioral issues can generate conflict with the people who are really close to them.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, also known as narcissism, dates back to ancient Greece. The term Narcissism comes from an old Greek myth of a young hunter named Narcissus. He was from the territory of Thespiae in Boeotia who was renowned for his beauty. He was the son of a river god named Cephissus and a nymph named Liriope. He was exceptionally proud, in that he disdained those who loved him. One day Narcissus was walking in the woods when Echo, an Oread, or mountain nymph, saw him, fell deeply in love, and followed him. Narcissus sensed he was being followed and shouted “Who’s there?”. Echo

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is characterized by “an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, an inability to handle any and all criticism, and an extreme sense of entitlement”. (DSM IV) These two disorders are often co-morbid, which means that antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder are often shown in people at the same time, but not always. Both disorders are much more prevalent in men than they are prevalent in women.

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are based on nine criteria from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual fifth edition. The criteria includes “a grandiose sense of self-importance, a preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love, believes that he or she is “special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with , other special or high-status people”, requires excessive admiration, has a sense of entitlement, is interpersonally exploitative, lacks empathy, is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her, shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitude” (Narcissistic personality disorder, n.d.). When looking for signs and symptoms for this disorder, only five of the nine

We all love ourselves. That seems to be such a true statement that we do not bother to look it as a possible disorder. A person who loves himself is one thing but one who loves his reflection is another. A healthy person will love himself and his accomplishments. That person is all around happy and satisfied with himself. On the other hand one who is in love with his reflection is cause for narcissism. One who depends on the existence of a reflection to produce the emotion of self-love. It also makes it impossible for the person to tell himself what is reality or what is fantasy. The narcissist does possess the desire to love and to be loved. If he cannot love himself, he has love his reflection. Narcissist are five (or more) of the

The diagnosis is based on the many symptoms of having a Narcissistic personality disorder such as feeling self-importance which is one of the main symptoms. The person normally has difficulty maintain an unhealthy relationship. They will take advantage of anyone just to get their own needs. Rage takes place if the person feels criticized. They will have no sympathy for anyone’s feelings but their selves. They are very good at making others feel guilty like with narcissistic parents they tend to say “I gave my life up for you and this is how you treat me” to their

Narcissism: is a term that originated with Narcissus in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Currently it is used to describe the pursuit of gratification from vanity, or egotistic admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, that derive from arrogant pride.

Just as children go through their egocentric phase, those that have NPD according the article “Narcissism and Well-Being: A Longitudinal Perspective” by Zuckerman & O 'Loughlin, (2009) states how they become “locked into that stage and never grows out of it”. When a child is allowed to feel overly important, that child will more than likely maintain their infantile mentality of “power [and] control”, thus “hindering Narcissistic characteristics. These children learn to scan and seek out those who can fulfill their narcissistic supply” that demands attention, recognition, and fulfillment.

What are some symptoms to look for in a person that could be narcissistic? If someone is narcissistic they envy others. He or she may react to criticism with anger. They can become easily jealous. He or she pursues mainly selfish goals.

Narcissists are observed to be having high self esteem though narcissism is not the same thing as self-esteem, this is seen in the attitude behind the self-esteem. Normal people with high self-esteem are seen

Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder display an exaggerated sense of self-importance, a preoccupation with being admired, and a lack of empathy for the feelings of others (Pincus & Lukowitsky,2010; Ronningstam,2005,2009). Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality

Narcissism is defined as excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance. This trait can be seen in many people and throughout all cultures. In many cases, narcissism is recognized in only those that seek a position of power. However this trait can be recognized differently between separate individuals . In the Tedx video “The Psychology of Narcissism”, Keith Campbell, explains the psychology of the narcissistic personality disorder in a descriptive speech.

Narcissism is the complete lack of empathy for others as well as over glorified self-esteem. This belief leads to a decrease in the amount of relationships because narcissists hold themselves on such a high pedestal. The history of this cautionary trait has come from the self-esteem movement which started to help the depression of people about their bodies, lives, and jobs. Creating this movement started out well; however, the extremists took it to a whole new level. So what once was a positive now became a negative because people only care for themselves. The characteristic of narcissism is found in Millennials more today than ever before. Through relationships, jobs, and views on entitlements, narcissism can be seen as leading Millennial